If being shy is stopping you from finding love, here are some top tips to help: BEFORE YOU START DATING Tip 1: Spruce up your wardrobe If the last time you spruced up your wardrobe was when your mum bought you a suit for your graduation, it’s time to hit the shops! If you’re not sure about the dress code, smart-casual is always better than scruffy as it shows you’ve made the effort.
Opt for a crisp, clean shirt and remember this top tip: women always pay attention to a man’s shoes.
There are so many things going on, from local networking events that are relevant to your interests to gallery open evenings, language/food classes or even the gym/your local sports clubs.
There’s nothing worse than a guy who agrees with everything a girl says.
For example, when it comes to ordering off the menu, if you say: “I’ll have whatever you’re having”, and she responds: “well I’ll have what you’re having…” you could be talking about it all night!
You’re looking for love but there’s one problem – you’re painfully shy and hate the idea of ‘singles events’ and getting yourself ‘out there’.
Online dating is fine…until you have to stop hiding behind the computer screen and actually meet up in person.
Just don’t go too far when it comes to the image revamping – if you do a ‘Ross from Friends’ and opt for a last-minute spray tan or teeth whitening session before your date, it could go horribly wrong…