Opt for something that gives you both an easy out, like lunch or a drink.
I'll take you to a dive bar with amazing burgers to see how you react.
I don't want to pick up a saved video game: I'm here to start new." —Orlando O."I always appreciate the offer to split the check, even though I never allow it.
If we end up grabbing drinks later and a woman insists on paying, I really like that a lot.
If you want something, be specific and avoid causing yourself unnecessary stress.