If he says this to you, he wants you to see what a great producer he is. He knows he’ll never have you mounted on his wall and likes it that way. I’ve quoted this before in my blogs and here it is again. Tell him something along the lines of this: “I really want you to be happy. Let him “explore all those possibilities” if there are any. If he’s a jerk, and leaves you-you win because who needs that? You let him “chase you” by letting him call, letting him make the plans. (After you’re an established couple, yes you can start calling him) 4.
When asked the key to her successful marriage she said “When my husband gets a little complacent, I pack a bag and stay gone! If he’s just trying to get the reaction, get ready for flowers. (and yes…you let him know what you would like to do, too! It’s something you’ve been working at, excelling at and enjoy. You don’t tell him every detail of your life, so he wonders what you’re up to. You don’t have to tell him what you are doing every minute of every day.
) You continue to lead your amazing life, career, pursing and researching your dreams, hobbies and desires because your life is awesome and fun without him. If you’re exhausted and all you can think of doing is relaxing in a bath tub? And don’t expect him to account for his every minute.
Maintain a little mystery by keeping focused on you and your needs.
I have taught thousands of lessons and helped all levels of golfers build, grow and improve their game of golf for over 25 years here at Torrey Pines including the full swing, shortgame, putting, course management and the mental side of the game.