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Our culture, even our Christian subculture, has become enamored with sex. One would think that sex is all there is to happiness and fulfillment. The man who enters marriage thinking that his wife is cut out of the same fabric as are the seductresses, excuse me, actresses he's seen on the television and movie screen—eager to jump in bed at any moment and ready to resolve every conflict with sex—is in for a terrible shock. Men who are unguarded in their intake of viewing and reading material set themselves up to be disappointed and to be a disappointment.

Better to come to grips with this now and have God form genuine love in our hearts than to enter into a relationship that hurts both individuals and misrepresents Christ. Embracing the hurt ushers in the comfort, and comfort is delivered by God Himself. Speaking of which, it is surprising how few men actually ask God for a wife.

Of all things, why would we leave this matter off our prayer list?

We're told that more marriages break up over finances than any other issue. I am suggesting, however, that a man who is disciplined in his work ethic and wise with his resources is better prepared for courtship and marriage than one who is impulsive and discontent.

The kind of lady you want will be drawn to your character, not the model year of your car or the square footage of your house.

And you'll begin to view women with the wholesome respect God intends.