It is virtually impossible to know someone’s true character right away.
Many people put on fronts when they first meet someone that don’t actually accurately represent who they are.
These guys exhibit any of the following characteristics: Rude, insensitive, chauvinistic, demeaning, impatient, mean, nasty, closed- off, judgmental, racist, defensive, untrustworthy.
These are all qualities that even if they don’t led to disaster upfront, will eventually send the relationship down the drain- and leave you feeling as though you were the one at fault.
“If you find yourself constantly drawing parallels between the two, you still haven’t found closure on the breakup,” says Steinberg.