I told her once in a while but that I still had to take a magazine into the bathroom occasionally.
She laughed and said at fifty-four (my age) she was still getting it three times a week from my ex-father-in-law.
When I kissed her, she almost seemed to be giving herself into it.
There was no negative reaction, and she did not even try to move away.
I decided that patience was the key, and I set out on taking my time doing it.
First, I decided I would make neutral physical contact with her.
I continued by saying that she was a wonderful person and that we loved her very much.