They find the idea appealing or intriguing (exciting, even! Unfortunately, some of these search terms reflect ‘myths’ about Black women and White men. One reason some Black women are hesitant to seriously pursue dating out, even with offers, is because of what they’ve been told about the love-making skills of White men. Since I have a little experience in this area, add one more testimony to the ballot FOR White men rocking in bed. White men generally are a lot less selfish in bed in more ways than one.
This is what happen when we are so unfamiliar with each other and refuse to mix and mingle. Black men have been shouting it from the rooftops for years that they have that department on lock, and White/Asian men come up short and pale in comparison (no pun intended). Most of these men don’t have hangups about pleasing their women… They believe in reciprocity (give to get), unlike many Black men who think sex is all about them.
Every single White guy I’ve dated has done just that.
The few times I’ve ventured out, I was sorely disappointed at the lack of affection I received from Black men after the deed. If you have experience in this department and want to school those who are interested in knowing the truth about sleeping with White men, leave a comment below.
She is also the author of "Matchbook: The Diary of a Modern Day Matchmaker" (Simon & Schuster).